I was not notified of the sale and my home was foreclosed

There foreclosure sale was Jan. 13th, 2009, and I was not notified of this sale by letter or any other way. I received a letter "demand for Possession" in 10 days, which has now passed. I have been searching for an attorney to help, but no one is willing to help at this time since they say they cannot. My name is on the mortgage and the Deed recorded at the probate office in 1999, Alabama. PHH Mortgage Services will not speak to me because I am not authorized to speak about this account since I am not on the mortgage with them, but I am on the Deed with them and they told me that is irrelevant. My ex-husband is on the mortgage only with PHH. I reside in the house. My ex-husband was ordered to pay mortgage payments on property, until he paid me the amount of equity I was awarded. That never took place, because I filed an appeal, which is still pending. How can I be on the mortgage in my county, and not with PHH? Cendant Motgage Company was the original mortgage lender, and the va was the guarantee. I should be authorized to work out payments to keep the home with PHH, since I am on the deed and reside in the home. They refuse to do this. I am scared about them coming here anytime and kicking me out and taking my personal property with the sheriff's office. In Alabama, it is law to be on the mortgage if you are married, so Cendant made an error for not following Alabama law. My rights have been so violated, and the equity in the house was over $50,000. I have interest in this house I have lived in for 10 years. I have no where to go, and no money to move. My 2 kids live here with me also, 5, and 18. I was counting on the money owed to me from my ex-husband. This man I married did this to me on purpose, because he is fighting for custody. Please help me? I am in an emergency, and have not stopped looking for help since this letter came in the mail. I need an attorney or advocate. Thank you for your time, and I hope you can help me.